5 Self Care Habits of Successful Women
If you think that successful women only do girl boss things 24/7, think again. Sure, successful women are crazy busy with managing their work and/or taking care of their families. You may think that they barely have time for themselves and that they do what seems to be the most rational option here—let it be.
Well, that cannot be any more wrong. For successful women, taking care of themselves is a non-negotiable part of their day—nay, their life. They are very much aware of the importance of self-care just as they are aware of how to use money wisely. In this time of anxiety, we better look at some of the inspiring self-care habits that successful women religiously follow to keep themselves sane. Though, as early as now, keep in mind that the meaning of success really varies from one person to another. The listed habits below are just a couple of proven ways to be included in the general bucket of what success looks like in our modern world. Let’s call all the successful women we’re pertaining to in this article as she/her, okay? Let’s dive right in.
She plans ahead. You may have a successful woman roll her eyes on you if you tell her she got lucky with life. Oh dear, watch your mouth because that would be blatantly disregarding all the hard work and overthinking she has done. She got to where she is today not because of chance, but because she always sets goals and thoughtfully breaks them down into tasks. It will be no surprise that she accomplishes them. She starts early, either writing or typing them down and finishing them as soon as she can to leave the rest of the day to attend to her other needs and wants.
With consistent planning and the right opportunities, she expectedly becomes financially savvy and stable as she knows how to manage her money. She just completely grasps where her money comes from and goes. Well, note that money is just one of the rewards that comes from being successful. The world basically runs by it in a sad sort of way. Anyhow, she plans everything—from daily tasks to her finances.
She sets clear boundaries. Many are having difficulty in saying no, but not her. She values her personal headspace and thus is not afraid of saying no because there is really no reason to. Contrary to popular belief, she doesn't always say yes to all doors presented to her. She considers their impact on her life and balances first before agreeing to anything. A lot of people can certainly learn from this as no one should feel obliged to say yes every single time. You may start thinking this way: when you say no to others, you say yes to yourself and that’s also an achievement in itself. It’s okay.
She’s fine taking things slow. Do away from the ‘hustle everyday’ mindset. More than anything, successful women don’t glamorize busyness. She even set a time to meditate so she can reconnect with her core, reevaluating her choices and what can be improved. She acknowledges that she needs to recharge in order to be able to think more clearly. A tired mind and money can cause burnout and an unstable emotional state. She knows it so she does something about it.
Whenever she feels the need to slow down, she basks in the peace that being alone brings. She takes this opportunity to reflect where she currently is and where she wants to be. This is also a chance to look back and give herself a tap on the back for having gone far and through life’s adversities. Scheduling time for oneself is of utmost importance especially now when everyone is living in a fast-paced environment. After all, ‘you should also be your priority.
She listens to her emotions. Yeah, she knows that her emotions are valid and that she has control over it. Not everything will obviously go in her favor so she reacts accordingly during those situations but still allot time to process what she has felt. There is a need to acknowledge whatever it was to avoid drowning in a suffocating sea of vagueness.
During the times she craves for something new, she simply gets right to it by (again) planning ahead for the new experience she wants. This is a way to effectively release an emotion as well since she gets to have a transition from a certain phase to the next. It can be a chance to let go and move on. Plus, this is part of her habit of pursuing her interests and having a social life. Remember that it is imperative to identify and get gifts for yourself such as trying new things that can help you in ways that you cannot even imagine.
She remembers her loved ones. Despite living an occupied life, she makes time for her loved ones to have no regrets. She knows that reconnecting with them is as important as reconnecting with oneself. If there is anything that this past year has taught us, it is our family and friends that help us keep ourselves together. They are our support system and it is just right to show them that they are highly valued. She puts them in her schedule as well as finds ways to meet new people to expand both her network and perspective.
These are only some habits that we should all try to adhere to whether to become successful or simply happier in life. We should learn to prioritize the right things with a grateful heart. Consistently practicing something will eventually pay off, allowing you to reap wonderful results without even realizing it. You can start with one before adding another. Having the initiative to take that first step is what matters most. Go for it!